


Spruce Circle

Cypress Circle





Spruce Circle

Cypress Circle


This is a follow-up to my Walpurgis Eve post. In the evening people gather all over Sweden for bonfires celebrating the coming of spring. This is the biggest bonfire I have ever seen!

Here at Djurby, the gathering also included singing by a chorus in which Tim was participating. Annalena has participated in the past, but this year she wanted to be in the audience. Tim participates in another chorus as well, but this group gets together specifically to perform at the bonfire.
I wanted to show the bonfire in action, and also to let you hear the chorus, but I decided not to show the chorus because I don’t know any of the members besides Tim, and I don’t know if any of them would be opposed to being shown online. Instead, I have overlaid the singing with this short bonfire clip.
I will try to add more links to videos or a link to my YouTube channel for those who are interested in more singing.
Here are more pictures of Tim, Annalena and their family.

Li, Finn, Anita (friend), Annalena, Momo, Tim

Momo holding Gnomey for me
I’m jumping ahead a few days here because today is a special day in Sweden. Traditionally, Walpurgis Eve is a day of celebration on the day before St. Walpurgis is celebrated and dates back to the middle ages. The day celebrates the coming of Spring or the coming of the growing season for farmers. Walpurgis Eve falls on April 30 and tomorrow is May 1 or May Day and International Workers Day-the Swedish Labor Day holiday.

















One of the first things I had to see when I arrived was Tim’s stone greenhouse. He had started this when we were here in 2014, but it was only recently finished. Tim explained that he had lost momentum on it, but his brothers had encouraged him to finish it and had helped during visits. The greenhouse is impressive. (Eat your heart out Roger!) One wall is full height made of stone mostly done by Tim. It is it includes an extension with an arched opening. The other three stone walls are lower with the upper sections of the walls made of wood and windows. The roof is partly covered with clear plastic. Part of the idea is that the stone walls will absorb heat during the day and let it out at night.








Happy St. Patrick’s Day, readers! Here is a picture of Castle Donovan, possibly belonging to my mother’s ancestors. (Her maiden name was Donovan.)

What I really wanted to write about was my weekend before last, March 7. My neighbor who walks Finnegan and Angus is an 8th grader named McKenna, a very bright and personable young lady. She and her classmates have been working for months for a Mock Court competition, and I had told her I’d like to attend. She was surprised, especially since it would be held an hour and a half away in Tumwater (near Olympia). But I had never been to one, and I thought it would be fun to support her team. As it turned out, there were 3 other important events scheduled for that day, and I told McKenna that I didn’t think I could make it. Leslie had just turned 50 and was planning a big murder mystery party with all her friends to mark the milestone, and I was invited. On the same day was the largest ham radio convention in Washington. I had not attended for several years because of my responsibilities. It was in Puyallup and would have kept me from home for too long. Also that day one of my favorite neighbors was having a going away party as she was moving to San Francisco.
McKenna had seemed quite excited about my going to her event, but she understood about the conflicts. As I gave the day more thought, I realized that the people in my life were much more important than things, and I could sacrifice the ham event to go to McKenna’s event. Also, Leslie’s event would not start until evening, so although it would be a long day, I could do it all.
McKenna’s event was great! I was very impressed with the professionalism of these 8th graders. As I talked to McKenna after,she explained that they had been given the scenarios, but they had to develop their questions of the witnesses and their opening and closing statements, as well as be prepared with objections. In the first trial McKenna was a defense attorney. The “judge” and “jury” were experienced lawyers who critiqued the students’ performance. (McKenna in particular was praised for her speaking voice and confidence.) I was really proud of her! She had 3 more trials to do that day, all with the same scenario but with the students in different roles. I left for the ham convention after the first trial.


Next was the Mike & Key Swap Meet and Ham Convention in Puyallup. I hit that on the way back from Tumwater. I was able to stay a couple of hours, and wander among the tables and tables of used ham gear and junk. It takes up two floors of the Puyallup Fair Exhibition Center. I was good though. I only bought a handful of cable connectors. I did get to see a bunch of people I hadn’t seen in a while, and I got to look at a bunch of used ham gear and junk–a geek’s dream! One thing I noticed though: there sure were a lot of old guys with gray hair and beard! Where did they come from? (Actually, we have a lot of diversity in my largest group.)


Also on the ham radio front, I worked with my long distance radio for several hours last weekend. There was a lot of activity and I made by first contact to a country on the continent of Africa. The county was Guinea-Bissau, which I had never heard of, but it has been independent since 1974. Apparently, the government has not been too stable since independence.

I made it home in time to take a rest before Leslie’s party. I had contributed some chicken chili for the event, made the day before. She had about 30 people there, and it was an 80’s themed murder mystery with characters based on 80’s celebrities or movie characters. It turned out that my character, Alligator Dundee, was the “Guest of Honor” (i.e. victim). Not only was I killed during the gathering, but as I mingled with the others to share clues, no one liked me and no one would cooperate. Apparently, I had pissed off all the other characters in one way or another! (Later, Leslie told me that several of her friends said they felt terrible about talking to her dad like they did!) The party was a lot of fun, and the theme encouraged people to mingle with each other throughout the evening.



Unfortunately, I didn’t make it to my neighbor’s going away get together, but I did see her a day later and gave her a big good bye hug. We will miss her here in our community.

Next up, Sweden in a couple of weeks, and then volunteering for communications at the Olympus Rally.

I mentioned previously that I would share more about Janie “in a few days,” but now two months have passed since she left us! It feels as though it has only been a few days! We have made it through the holidays, and I’m now preparing to face the future and see where life leads me. Before moving on from the subject of Janie’s life, I want to include her full obituary and provide links to my remarks at the Celebration of Life, as well as Leslie’s and Katie’s remarks. These are all included in the video, but for those who have not seen it, I’m making them available here.
Summarizing a person’s whole life in a few paragraphs is impossible. As we said in our various remarks, Janie was kind, loving and empathetic. She was human, had her faults, and made mistakes, but in her heart, she wanted the best for everyone around her. She and I were very different, but in those differences, we balanced each other and helped each other grow. Isn’t that what a marriage should look like?
Besides her influence on me, she taught her children, friends and students in so many ways. Besides the things she taught me, Janie was the partner who kept me going. A few years after we were married, I decided that I wanted to go to law school. Those 4 years were a major sacrifice for her. Part of the time I was commuting to work in Monroe and to school in Tacoma. She not only worked, but she took care of pretty much everything for the family. An example is that she made it a point to have an early dinner ready when I got home from work so that we could eat as a family before I headed off to school. I started a part-time law practice with a friend from school, while I was still working full-time. Again, long hours with her support, even though she sacrificed time with me and my help.
Another phase of mine was hot air ballooning. I did it for nearly 30 years with varying degrees of intensity. We did it as a family even though she was afraid of heights. That went on for quite a few years until the rest of the family got tired of it, but I kept going and she supported it.
I was interested in photography and she encouraged me and did it with me. Then it was woodworking and she supported that. Now it’s ham radio, and she encouraged me in that and would even tell me it was time to buy another radio! I don’t think a lot of people realized how much she was behind all my activities, but I could not have done them without her.
Now, I’m not saying goodbye to my memories. Anyone who has lost a loved one recognizes that they will be a part of you forever. Many times a day, I do some little thing that reminds me of her absence. Nor will I forget the lessons Janie taught me.
I do hope to continue writing about where I go from here. I started this blog after I retired so that my friends could follow my “further adventures.” Well, I’ve had plenty but there is more to come and more to share.
Here are our tributes:
Katie’s Introduction and Tribute
Rich’s Tribute
Leslie’s Tribute